i have battled most of my life with”the other side” syndrome. the other side syndrome is where you just can’t wait to get to the other side of where you are. the grass will be greener. the air will be fresher. there will be no ticks to suck your blood. and beautiful women (for me they would all be lisa clones) in togas will feed you grapes.
i heard one pastor call it the “when then disease”.
“when i get more money, then i’ll be happy.”
“when i find a wife, then i’ll be happy.”
“when i’m discovered and touring the world, then i’ll be happy.”
“when they finally create skittle flavored doritoes, then i’ll be happy.”
we all have dreams and aspirations of who we want to be and for most of us, we don’t want to wait for it. we are so excited about what’s coming that we miss out on the joys of today.
it reminds me of kids at Christmas. so many gifts to open. you can’t wait for them to open the gift you picked out for them. they tear through the wrapping paper and discover the latest in remote controlled car technology. they smile. but immediately the smile fades as they reach for the next present and begin ripping it open. no time spent relishing the gift, it’s time for something bigger and better. i’m so glad i spent $35 for that.
today God is reminding me to be thankful for where i am in this moment. tomorrow will be great but so is today. I was reminded of what Paul wrote in Philippians:
I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. (4:12)
Brian Alexander 11:48 pm on October 29, 2009 Permalink |
That sucks dude. If I ever get the swine flu I will stay away from you I promise
regina 7:41 am on October 30, 2009 Permalink |
well i guess we wont b seeing u for ur bday this weekend